Trusting God in the Unexpected

In today’s world, it can be hard to stay positive and trust God with all the challenges that come our way. It may seem easier to worry or struggle against whatever we feel trapped by instead of trusting in a higher power. But even when times are tough, finding joy and having faith in God is always possible! Let’s take some time now for an encouraging look at how trusting God looks like – one joyful step at a time.

Trusting in the Lord requires us to believe two crucial things: first, that He knows what is best; secondly, that everything will turn out alright if we just keep moving forward together with Him. In reality this means leaving all our worries behind while still striving towards improvement in our lives.

This includes releasing fear-based thinking patterns, taking action when guided, and through prayerful discernment, because there’s nothing else God wants more than us living fully alive right here and right now! On earth as in heaven.

Sometimes making appearances during difficult moments only serve an additional reminder that His love forever overcomes human suffering regardless of its form or size. We should therefore let every single challenging episode not defeat us but rather beautify us beyond recognition no matter whether we are crushed internally or externally.

Let us in those moments avoid walking down another path potentially considered being off route as long-term results may require more time and efforts to redeem you. Instead let us seek to journey honouring God and He shall direct our paths in the uncertainty of life

My message today: Trusting God means believing that His plan is perfect and He won’t ever fail us. We shouldn’t allow difficulty to shake up our firm foundation built upon Jesus Christ, let us allow him to provide guidance genuinely filled with immense and unconditional love.

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Majina Yote Mazuri Ni Yako…(All Good Names Belong to You)..

When you are overwhelmed by the Love of God and need to shout at the roof top with lyrics of a song.. May we remember the names of God in whatever situation we are going through in our lives.

As I went through the comments section, I realised the anointing in this song not only blesses me but others who have heard it.

1. The Miraculous Birth

The whole village had given up on the fact that any girl from Chief Pokoits’ homestead would ever get a child. The villagers believed that if any leader had been unfair to the community in any way, the curse would be upon his female children and none would bear a child. Chief Pokoit had led the Kanawoi community for over thirty years and the mention of his name sparked fear. He was known to pick the healthiest goat or sheep in every homestead he visited. The people of Kanawoi had over the years not only struggled with the impact of drought but had to keep their healthy herds even closer with the hope that they would help reproduce more healthier animals.

Emeri was Chief Pokoits’ eldest daughter from the seventh wife, being a Chiefs daughter, she was lucky enough not to have been married off early but she was also one of the most daring of Chief Pokoits’ forty children. It was easy to get lost in the midst of all those children and it was common for a father not to know all his children. Emeri had made friends with a young man in her village who was about her age or younger and together had made an oath that none of them would get married until they had enough wealth. Wealth to them meant a herd of goats and sheep and if lucky a few cows. Camels were only owned by a few such as Emeris father. The two had seen a young man taken from their village shortly after initiation while they were still very young and taken to a far off town they only knew as Kisumu. The man had returned several years later dressed in clean well pressed clothes and riding a motorcycle, the first in their village. He built his aging parents a house and dug a borehole for them, another first in the village. Every year, he would come to the village atleast once and there was always a big surprise, if he was not buying hundreds of lambs, he was buying a camel or two. That was a dream Emeri had, to be as wealthy and move to Kisumu.

Life however had different plans as shortly after Emeri turned sixteen, she found herself pregnant and Nadia was born in that small village of Kanawoi in Turkana County sometime in January of 1981. Her mother Emeri was immediately married off to Nadias father whose homestead had poor nomadic herders for generations and who raised cattle and goats for a living. Despite the challenges they faced, they were proud of their daughter-in law being that she was a Chiefs daughter and did their best to provide for her in the hope that maybe the community curse of not getting children had not caught up with her because she was a good person and she would bring good luck to the family.

Growing up in Kanawoi, Nadia was surrounded by the beauty of the savannah and the harshness of the desert. She learned the traditional ways of her people and the importance of taking care of the land and animals. However, she also saw the difficulties they faced, such as droughts and conflicts with other communities over resources.

Despite these challenges, Nadia was a bright and curious child. She loved to learn and was fascinated by the world around her. She was especially interested in science and the way things worked. She would often ask her parents and grandparents questions about the plants, the animals, and the stars. They would share their knowledge and encourage her to explore and discover for herself.

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Life’s Chapters..

I had a very interesting conversation today, and what stood out is how in some way, I really connected with that story, almost feeling like it was a story I have walked through or dreamt about. You know how someone shares a story with you on a call and you feel like you were part of it?. Well, this may land me in some trouble but what better way to share a friends journey that started about eight years ago.

She had reported to a new job and as is custom for her, she arrived way too early before any of the offices were opened. There was a kind security guard named Wilson dressed in a Lavington Security uniform, a Kenyan security firm, and after a quick exchange of pleasantries and who she was there to see, Wilson notified her that the human resource manager she was reporting to had not arrived but he had briefed the security team of my friends arrival as part of the new staff reporting on that day. Wilson ushered her into an office near the gate where one of the employees, a tall handsome engineer had just come in and seemed to be settling in for the day. My immediate question was how she remembered the security guards name and she mentioned that his polite and welcoming attitude made her realise that the work culture there must be one that valued people and no one forgets a good act. You can already guess, I wanted to know more about the engineer.

Wilson introduced her to the gentleman and for some reason, she felt like she knew this guy from another place. I know my friend well enough as she is a great story teller and I could have bet on my life that those two had never met. I was eager as you are right now, to know what happened next. The professionalism, the welcome and how this gentleman who I will call OJ for the sake of this story appealed to my friend. In her words, she said that there was something “extra special” about him. I wanted to hear each and every detail of it but clearly, the deep breaths of excitements and what I could only describe as love emotions for the said handsome engineer OJ kept interrupting all the juicy details. At some point, she paused and breathed so hard I thought at some point she had dropped off the call.

Well! there was a spark, a connection and for lack of a better word, something that was so special about OJ. Knowing the kind of person my friend is, this seemed to be strange as the whole story had come up as she sought direction from me on how to deal with OJ, eight years into their friendship. As you can clearly tell, that spark resulted into something, a bond, a love (as she called it) that was deep yet unclear. I am not a counsellor or a therapist so I could not really understand how and what to respond. But something came into my mind and I hope any counsellor or therapist reading this will read my disclaimer in the previous sentence. Turned out that OJ and my friend had developed a very strong bond over the years and many times, each of them would withhold their “truth” from each other and had gone through different seasons, both good and bad seasons, and each blamed the other for not having ended up together as husband and wife. That is the part that confused me even more.

My understanding was that from day one, the foundations had been set, though shallow, the two had allowed some roots to grow, but both feared the watering and the nurturing. Eight years later, alot had changed, the roots had grown deeper and to some extent, my friend felt as though the uncertainty of what lay ahead was mostly on OJs side. She needed to make a decision and move on to the next chapter of her life, a journey she was unsure if OJ was willing to lead. As an avid reader, I happened to have seen some quote on uncertainty on Pinterest a few days back, and all I could think about was the seasons both of them may have been through. I requested my friend to share her feelings with OJ, but I also reminded her that she needed to embrace the uncertainty as some of the most beautiful chapters in our lives won’t have a title until much later.

I hope the same words speak to someone reading this and is going through some uncertainty in this season. I would love to hear your advise on the comment section on what advise you would have given my friend if you were in my shoes (of course without the deep details I have had to withhold to safeguard my friend).

God Bless You!

Gratitude..

It is not automatic that you will go to bed at night and wake up whole or even alive the next morning. This is something we we often take for granted. You wake up and hop off the bed as though the new day is guaranteed. It does not matter if you are religious or not, it does not hurt to just stop and say thank you to the power that kept you safe throughout the night when your guard was down and you were literally powerless as you lay down in bed or couch.

I have experienced situations that my loved ones or I go to bed unwell and wake up well, go to bed well and wake up unwell and even in one situation, my most beloved person in this world never got to see the next day. Our days are not guaranteed and every morning that I actually wake up and can put one foot in front of the other, lift or move my hands to hug my children as they leave for school or move my head to give them kisses is already a testimony in itself. A testimony that a mightier being than myself made it possible for me to wake up and experience the joy of a new day and fulfil the tasks that He has ahead of me, not to fulfil my to do list which He has all the power to change. That mightier being to me is God.

I do not take it for granted that everyday or even any day for that matter is guaranteed. To take it a step further, I am of the belief that you are still here as there is a purpose that you have not fulfilled, whether that purpose is meeting the needs of your family or your community, God does reveal those purposes to us if we seek Him diligently. Our hands and feet are not just to serve ourselves, they are to serve the greater good of this generation. I define generation not by the age set or age group but the time you are alive as the bible speaks of King David in Acts 13:36 that states, ‘Now when David had served God’s purpose in his own generation, he fell asleep; he was buried with his ancestors and his body decayed“.

Your time to fall asleep could be any day from today, I pray that as you start your day today, you will be more intentional in your gratitude and in how you treat people as that too is a form of gratitude. Take just a few minutes and say thank you. Thank you for a new day, Thank you that your eyes can see this short reminder, and choose to live each day with intentionality.

God Bless You!

Forgiveness.

I guess I can’t keep running away from the topic of forgiveness. I have never blogged in tears or such vulnerability but this one…I did…and it took so much time to get it done with this song on my background (please listen to it, it may unlock something in you).

Well, I decided to do online church today and I happened to go back to one of my favourite preachers, Bishop Gibson Aduvate of the ICC Nairobi Church. The reality is that forgiveness is very complicated, The preacher mentioned that we want to live in the standards of men and treat human beings as they treat us yet God demands that we be different. He went on to read Romans 12: 1-2 and 9-21 and talked about how we live today based on experiences from yesterday by living on decisions that are centred on ourselves. He also touched on unconditional love, a love that has no expectations and by loving unconditionally, we allow God to fight for us.

I am no expert in forgiveness as I have found myself struggling with the same. One thing that has been very heavy in my spirit in the last few days is the urgency to forgive. I have been reminded of the sacrifice on the cross where I can still enjoy that forgiveness through accepting a Jesus Christ I never met, yet struggling to forgive myself and a few people that I know well but have hurt me deeply. I have heard sermons, checked out memes and received frequent reminders on this topic but one thing for sure, it is heavy and can only take the Holy Spirit to intervene. Today alone, I was reminded through the sermon, a forward in a WhatsApp group I am in as well as a WhatsApp conversation from a loved one. I just don’t get it, but clearly, I know that many people share my pain and space where we know what to do but we have no strength to do it.

As I did a school assignment today on a community development paper, one of the questions read, “You have been assigned to work in Kibra slums. What challenges are you likely to encounter? What are the likely solutions? (10 marks)“. Kibra is a slum in Nairobi and one of the biggest in Africa. For some reason, as I wrote down my responses, I found myself drifting to the extremes of violence that happens in such a place due to the population and thought of the vulnerable population in such a place like young girls who suffer injustices such as rape and how forgiving such a violator would look like. I also happened to come across a celebration of service of a handsome promising young man named Keagan who was stabbed recently in one of the Nairobi suburbs and the pain in his death as I watched the service made me also wonder how forgiveness especially by his mom to the killer(s) that selfishly took away her only son would be like.

Just writing about forgiveness alone crushes me and brings me to tears as I don’t understand it or how it should be. Even as I insert some quotes/images I found on the topic, my prayer is that in this season, God shall teach me and you who may be reading this and struggling with the same to understand it and do it…to forgive….atleast soon!

God bless you!

Keep Stoking Your Fire…

I thought I would write about forgiveness today but I guess that is a tough one to actualise on a Saturday afternoon when I would rather be outdoors or taking a nap. Well, the weather has been changing lately and for some reason, when it rains in Kenya, the weather somehow turns cold, so let me warm up this place y talking about fire…but a different kind of fire.

I have always appreciated houses with fireplaces especially in extremely cold places and every time I think of a fire, it’s either an outdoor fire-pit roasting marshmallows with kids and loved ones, a house with a real fireplace or one of those crazy places my friends K and A took me a few weeks ago and we left there smelling of smoke after some amazing pre-election debates. Well! if you get to read this, let’s revisit soon with that whole squad and have a post-election analysis.

Back to our fire for the day. We all have something inside us that gives us that upper edge, brightens up our faces as we do it or even dream about doing it. I really cannot explain what a personal fire is in one blog but I want you to take a few minutes, close your eyes and just imagine what that one thing is that you wish you had done and have never done because someone said you could not do it, or you are not so good at it or even your own limiting dreams kept or keep holding you back. You wanted a certain career, dreamt of starting a certain business or dating someone from a particular tribe or race but those close to you thought or even said otherwise. Well! if you want it soo bad and it’s legal and moral, nothing should stop you.

An athlete going for a race never plans who to beat in the race. They are in most cases competing with their own personal record or time. In 2019, the world watched as Eliud Kipchoge took on the INEOS 1:59 challenge to proof that no human was limited by running a marathon in under two hours. I remember reading Eliud’s diary in the INEOS159 challenge website around that season and one thing that stood out was that the fire in him to proof to the world that no human was limited was clearly unstoppable.

We all go through the seasons where we have a big dream or big desire to achieve a goal but often get discouraged because of our own mental doubts that speak louder than our faith telling us that we cannot make it and even worse, the voices of those we allow around us that pour water on our fires. Whether it is our personal limitations or the discouragement from those around us, one thing we must be intentional about is to be ready and willing to burn those bridges that limit our growth to the next level and instead, get to work and stoke those fires by taking the first step towards living our best lives today.

God Bless You!

Success in Consistency – 57 days to go!

“The secret of your success is hidden in your daily routine”, These words by Mike Murdock may not always make sense especially when you have an excuse not to commit into that daily goal or to do action on your list. However, one thing you will notice from people whose lives you have watched change over time is the power of consistency. We have about 57 days left to come to the end of the year 2022 and looking back, many of us made some New Year goals. Sadly, just about 307 days later, most of those goals have either gathered dust, changed over time (which is okay) or totally forgotten all together, especially those goals that were never written down.

Is it too late to achieve that one goal that you set out to achieve at the beginning of the year, of the month or even of the week? Absolutely not. One of the statements that I have heard from multiple coaches and motivational speakers is that it is never too late to start taking the small daily steps to towards that one big goal. I have watched people close to me change their lives by taking very small and sometimes what seems like insignificant steps towards changing their lives.

What are some of the simple steps I have seen people take but do so consistently? Someone intentionally taking 30 min walk a day and eventually losing that extra weight, reading a chapter of a book daily and eventually learning a new skill, saving money every month and getting enough to take a dream vacation, buy a new car or a piece of land, pay a downpayment for a mortgage or even start a business, writing 300 words daily and completing a book. I mean, there is so much one can accomplish by taking small steps daily.

No one can limit the power each of us possess, we can however be our biggest detractors or promoters by having the intentionality to take small steps everyday towards our dream destination, whatever that destination is for you.

It is not too late to close the year 2022 with some big wins. The fact that you are here and reading this means that there is still work for you to do here on earth, a purpose to fulfil and that will take some small disciplines repeated consistently to achieve. As they say, Rome was not built in a day but it was definitely build one stone at a time. Start gathering your stones today and watch how far you will have gone by December 31st 2022, just 57 days from today.

God Bless You!

Yes! You Can Overcome.

I found myself reflecting on the words of 1 Cor 10:13 today that states that, “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it”.

Sin and bad habits have a way of entangling themselves into our lives to the point that we become enslaved to them. What starts off as a thought or a desire for simple things suddenly becomes so embedded in our lives that we are no longer able to say no or resist even what we consider harmful in the long term. Things that we once shunned or judged others about are no longer the other persons fault or mistakes but instead a thorn in our own flesh. A thorn we cannot remove despite the pain. We suddenly look back and realise that we were wrong to judge those who we thought had no self control, we realise that the power in some of these bad habits is truly beyond the doer.

There is however hope in every situation, there is the confidence we have and especially as a creation that believes in a creator, a mighty being that has power to control and to conserve, to rescue and to heal, to redeem and break every shackles that binds our hearts and minds, and to finally set one free. That mighty being for me has remained as God. I learnt over the years to stop judging others and especially when I am not the shoe wearer. The shoe may look too tight or too loose for the wearer, but it is not in my place to judge.

In my moments of reflections, in the silence of it all, I am reminded that I cannot keep going back to things that God has already rescued me from. I must soldier on, I must keep the hope that the answers that I have long waited for are along this same path, I just need to be a little more patient, a little more gentle and always remember that God will provide a way out, and will not allow me to be tempted beyond what I can bear.

I hope this helps you too. Despite your current situation, look up and try and see beyond this current phase, because right ahead, if you keep pushing on, and holding on a little longer, the light will shine again, the darkness will fade away, the discipline and the self control muscles will be stronger, and the new life will await you, as you look forward to a new you, and never have to suffer the regret of having to go back to something God has rescued you from.

God bless you!